Storytellers Cafe
42 Lessons to help you Tell Stories Better
I’m one of those folks who can’t talk without using a story to get my point across. I’m also one of those folks who gets invited to speak at a lot of different kinds of conferences. Not because I’m the smartest guy in the room, but because people like hearing my stories.
And the simple truth is that you can do exactly what I do. Whether you’re speaking formally at work, presenting at conferences, or hanging out with friends on the weekend, developing your storytelling skills are a must.
If you’re pretty good at telling stories but you want to add a few more tools into your tool belt, then this course is for you.
But if you’re new to speaking to people – whether it’s formal presentation or informal presentations in meetings – this course is also for you.
Basically, regardless of whether you’re speaking in the bar, boardroom, or ballroom – these lessons will help you.
You’ll learn how to tell stories better, and how to tell better stories.
And those are two different things.
My lessons (you can see the list below) will give you everything you need to pick the best stories, shape them so that they’re the most memorable, and deliver them in a way that gets you the respect of your peers.
1. Everyone can tell stories
2. Wrap your facts in stories
3. It doesn't have to be your story
4. Keep a story log
5. Every part must be essential
6. Know the narrative
7. Start with your story’s purpose.
8. Anchor your story in truth
9. Have a beginning, middle, & end
10. Put goals in the beginning...
11. Include sensory details
12. Include emotional details
13. Include reaction details
14. Include your inner thoughts
15. Add dialogue
16. Establish a baseline
17. Slow down on the turning points
18. Dig into the decision points
19. Shape your structure strategically
20. Set hooks throughout your story
21. Put yourself in the story
22. Use repetition
23. Share a postscript
24. Choose your ending wisely
25. Play the silent movie in your head
26. Determine how deep to share
27. Plan carefully
28. Practice alone and with people
29. Keep beginning and end short
30. Observe your audience and adjust as needed
31. Take breaths in between sections of your story
32. Pay attention to pacing
33. Leverage your movement
34. Manage your voice's volume
35. Ask questions (not for knowledge but for association)
36. Use images to get your laughs
37. Don't get distracted by detours
38. Laugh at yourself when needed
39. Limit the use of notes
40. Stop talking at the end, don't ramble
41. Wrap up after the Q&A
42. Revisit your hook, end with a good last line
Chris Lema